I've been mostly using it to find old friends from way back when, and connecting with new folks in SF and PDX.
I'm wary of discussions tho. I have some ideas about how I like my D/s, but that's what works for me, not for anyone else. :)
Tho I have to say, you want a rant, the fact that local SF event producers can't seem to get information out about any events in a reasonable amount of time make me UTTERLY CRAZY: eg, event tomorrow night, details show up at 1:30 am this morning... THIS is more that its making sure it stays a clique and never becomes accessible to those of us who have an entire life outside of our kinky sex and other relationships.
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I'm wary of discussions tho. I have some ideas about how I like my D/s, but that's what works for me, not for anyone else. :)
Tho I have to say, you want a rant, the fact that local SF event producers can't seem to get information out about any events in a reasonable amount of time make me UTTERLY CRAZY: eg, event tomorrow night, details show up at 1:30 am this morning... THIS is more that its making sure it stays a clique and never becomes accessible to those of us who have an entire life outside of our kinky sex and other relationships.