Honest answer: I think it goes both ways. I see just as much "let me show you how submissive i am!" posturing as there is "I am a big important SuperDom(tm)" posturing. And when they get together, it's...er, an amazing thing.
Mostly, in my ranty head, I was aiming for the most efficient solution.
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Date: 2008-03-06 03:23 pm (UTC)Mostly, in my ranty head, I was aiming for the most efficient solution.