pantryslut

I like you and I think I met you once, and have met G once and we had a long talk about baseball. I never have met S that I know of. If I saw you again I would ask you a million questions about your work and your babies, and probably talk your damn ear off, which I do with everyone. I lurk at your journal (moreso since reading your comments around Racefail) and this post made me think: I have the opposite situation (not problem; just situation) -- I can small talk with the best of them, immediately hit it off with most people UNLESS they want someone to have a deep conversation about feelings and processing ... that stuff, I can only do with my very closest friends (such as one you know, stopword). Everyone else gets the chitchat, which isn't idle or meaningless since I really do want to hear about the writing and the babies.... But a lot of people seem to find chat/small talk so odious that they don't want to do it at all, ever.