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pantryslut1. Why's the rum always gone?
Rum, along with vodka, is the hard liquor people drink when they don't like hard liquor. However, vodka evokes images of cold and grim landcapes, while rum evokes images of island beaches. Vodka is a little aloof, rum a little more fun. So rum is the liquor people drink when they don't like hard liquor and want to be seen as approachable and accessible, the kind of person who frolics in the warm surf.
2. Why did all the big MLS news happen today?
MLS wrongly thought that, since you were home for the day, you would have a chance to hear and absorb all the news at your leisure. It sincerely regrets the error.
3. When did you start writing and when did you start writing dirty stories? Is the one you read at Cake and Debauchery published?
Once upon a time, I was at the Clarion Science Fiction Writer's Workshop, and everyone was telling their stories about how they began writing. I didn't have a story. At the time, Clarion took place in my hometown, and I was spending a lot of time visiting my parents. So I asked my mother if she remembered how I began writing.
"Yes," she replied. "You were two years old."
She went on to tell me that when I was two, my parents held a little birthday party for me, with cake and balloons. They thought it would be fun if they wrote my name in marker on some of the balloons. As it happens, I had just learned to write my own name, and apparently I insisted on writing it myself on every single balloon at the party. "You only had one word," my mother said, "but you were determined to use it."
So that's the story I tell now whenever anyone asks how and when I started writing.
Myself, I remember I was encouraged by my fifth-grade teacher to write fiction after I turned in a story about fairies to her.
The story I read at Cake and Debauchery, "The Robber Girl," appears in one of the volumes of Ultimate Lesbian Erotica (Alyson), but I don't remember which one. It's also supposed to appear in Tough Girls 2 if I can find another publisher for that anthology.
4. Do you like to kiss? Is it all cutting off clothes and blood or do you romance your dates? Do you ever bottom? What does it take to get you to that space? Would you prefer a SAMMY bottom or someone who offers their submission up to you like a gift and accept pain as gift and/or reward?
That's a lot of questions :)
First of all, I want to say that I didn't even come close to breaking his skin. I just shredded his jeans ;)
I am quirkily romantic, if that makes sense. I do not do well with the conventional forms of romance because I do not understand them and they do not speak to me, and the very gendered nature of the tropes leaves me with no idea how to act. I'm not butch enough (or, if you prefer, not the right kind of butch) to play the butch and certainly not femme enough to play the femme. Nonetheless, I like cards and flowers and ice cream cones and cooking dinner and e-mail and phone calls and...
I love to kiss. I like to make out. It is one of my favorite things.
I like to cuddle, too. Shh, don't tell anyone ;) I like to hold hands and touch.
I am a true switch and I like to bottom as much as I like to top. I am more of a masochist than a submissive, and I am less of a masochist than I used to be, but I still like to bottom a lot. I have a hard time with traditional forms of submission because I have a huge, huge block against being asked to perform anything. Anything. If I choose to perform it, that's one thing, but being asked or (especially!) told to, that's another. And "perform" is the key word; I can be asked to do a task and that's fine, but if I am asked to do a task while other people observe me, that's bad. So anything beyond a straight masochist scene can be tricky, and hard to lay out my limits in a paragraph or two here, and requires some discussion, but I'm definitely always open to discussion :)
I like both brats and SAMs and resistance play, and submissives who offer their obedience as a gift. I'm flexible, it depends on the person and our connection. Just as I am more of a masochist than a submissive, I am more a sadist than a dominant. I'm quirky about protocol and about punishment.
More questions? Ask here.
Rum, along with vodka, is the hard liquor people drink when they don't like hard liquor. However, vodka evokes images of cold and grim landcapes, while rum evokes images of island beaches. Vodka is a little aloof, rum a little more fun. So rum is the liquor people drink when they don't like hard liquor and want to be seen as approachable and accessible, the kind of person who frolics in the warm surf.
2. Why did all the big MLS news happen today?
MLS wrongly thought that, since you were home for the day, you would have a chance to hear and absorb all the news at your leisure. It sincerely regrets the error.
3. When did you start writing and when did you start writing dirty stories? Is the one you read at Cake and Debauchery published?
Once upon a time, I was at the Clarion Science Fiction Writer's Workshop, and everyone was telling their stories about how they began writing. I didn't have a story. At the time, Clarion took place in my hometown, and I was spending a lot of time visiting my parents. So I asked my mother if she remembered how I began writing.
"Yes," she replied. "You were two years old."
She went on to tell me that when I was two, my parents held a little birthday party for me, with cake and balloons. They thought it would be fun if they wrote my name in marker on some of the balloons. As it happens, I had just learned to write my own name, and apparently I insisted on writing it myself on every single balloon at the party. "You only had one word," my mother said, "but you were determined to use it."
So that's the story I tell now whenever anyone asks how and when I started writing.
Myself, I remember I was encouraged by my fifth-grade teacher to write fiction after I turned in a story about fairies to her.
The story I read at Cake and Debauchery, "The Robber Girl," appears in one of the volumes of Ultimate Lesbian Erotica (Alyson), but I don't remember which one. It's also supposed to appear in Tough Girls 2 if I can find another publisher for that anthology.
4. Do you like to kiss? Is it all cutting off clothes and blood or do you romance your dates? Do you ever bottom? What does it take to get you to that space? Would you prefer a SAMMY bottom or someone who offers their submission up to you like a gift and accept pain as gift and/or reward?
That's a lot of questions :)
First of all, I want to say that I didn't even come close to breaking his skin. I just shredded his jeans ;)
I am quirkily romantic, if that makes sense. I do not do well with the conventional forms of romance because I do not understand them and they do not speak to me, and the very gendered nature of the tropes leaves me with no idea how to act. I'm not butch enough (or, if you prefer, not the right kind of butch) to play the butch and certainly not femme enough to play the femme. Nonetheless, I like cards and flowers and ice cream cones and cooking dinner and e-mail and phone calls and...
I love to kiss. I like to make out. It is one of my favorite things.
I like to cuddle, too. Shh, don't tell anyone ;) I like to hold hands and touch.
I am a true switch and I like to bottom as much as I like to top. I am more of a masochist than a submissive, and I am less of a masochist than I used to be, but I still like to bottom a lot. I have a hard time with traditional forms of submission because I have a huge, huge block against being asked to perform anything. Anything. If I choose to perform it, that's one thing, but being asked or (especially!) told to, that's another. And "perform" is the key word; I can be asked to do a task and that's fine, but if I am asked to do a task while other people observe me, that's bad. So anything beyond a straight masochist scene can be tricky, and hard to lay out my limits in a paragraph or two here, and requires some discussion, but I'm definitely always open to discussion :)
I like both brats and SAMs and resistance play, and submissives who offer their obedience as a gift. I'm flexible, it depends on the person and our connection. Just as I am more of a masochist than a submissive, I am more a sadist than a dominant. I'm quirky about protocol and about punishment.
More questions? Ask here.
