I note with some startlement that I have always been approached out of the blue (not in any formal scenes) by men who want to be dominated by a Dragon Lady (or so I presume, as they're asking without having engaged in any prior conversation, just in their visual assessment of me). I've never been approached that way with an expectation of Oriental Flower submissiveness. I now wonder what flagging I'm doing without being aware of it. (And I suspect that most non-East-Asian women do not have this experience.)
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Date: 2011-05-03 08:21 pm (UTC)I note with some startlement that I have always been approached out of the blue (not in any formal scenes) by men who want to be dominated by a Dragon Lady (or so I presume, as they're asking without having engaged in any prior conversation, just in their visual assessment of me). I've never been approached that way with an expectation of Oriental Flower submissiveness. I now wonder what flagging I'm doing without being aware of it. (And I suspect that most non-East-Asian women do not have this experience.)