I notice that a lot of you comment that you lean towards folks that you've seen live. Understandable. But it made me review who I have seen live, and I once again realized that, well, I was writing for a lesbian magazine for seven years or something like that. I have seen tons of live music -- but only a handful of men. (And frankly, a lot of them I would not consider particularly sexy even though I enjoyed their music.) Oops! Oh well.