I answer your questions #1
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pantryslutAsk me anything!
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1. So, what about that universe!
The last time I checked, the universe is expanding and will continue to expand indefinitely. I could be wrong, though. I once got into an argument about this once. It was odd.
2. When was your first same-sex experience, and what was it? And ditto with perverted (ie: bdsm-related) experiences.
My first same-sex experience was playing house with the girl across the street. I was about eight.
My first adult solo same-sex experience was with my ex-wife, when I was in college. She came over to my room in the boarding house I lived in, carrying a bag of Hershey's kisses and a rose, so that I could not mistake her intent.
The caveat "solo" is there because I had done some foursome-ish fooling around maybe a year or so before that.
I experimented with BDSM stuff with Steven pretty early on in our relationship. So early I can barely remember :) I know that by the time I was seeing the ex-wife, I was out as a BDSM person, and we discussed her previous bad experiences with bondage before proceeding to very mild tying up scenarios.
3. What is your favorite of your regular activities?
Reading. Cooking is a close second. Long walks through gardeny spaces might be third. Reading in gardeny spaces is not a regular activity, but it can be awful nice.
4. Now that you're working in Palo Alto, would you like to have lunch sometime?
I'm not working in Palo Alto yet :) But when I am (mid-March), sure!
5. Tell me about the last time you really wanted someone to like you.
I really, really want to give this question a good, solid answer, because I think it's a great question. But it's hard. I don't really concern myself much with whether people *like* me or not, and I haven't for a very long time, maybe before adulthood even. I don't go out of my way to be likable. Nonetheless, people seem to like me anyway...
I think the closest answer would be when I left to visit my parents for Xmas break when I'd just started dating G., and I missed him terribly, and I really hoped the feeling was more or less mutual because otherwise I was heading for trouble.
Answers:
1. So, what about that universe!
The last time I checked, the universe is expanding and will continue to expand indefinitely. I could be wrong, though. I once got into an argument about this once. It was odd.
2. When was your first same-sex experience, and what was it? And ditto with perverted (ie: bdsm-related) experiences.
My first same-sex experience was playing house with the girl across the street. I was about eight.
My first adult solo same-sex experience was with my ex-wife, when I was in college. She came over to my room in the boarding house I lived in, carrying a bag of Hershey's kisses and a rose, so that I could not mistake her intent.
The caveat "solo" is there because I had done some foursome-ish fooling around maybe a year or so before that.
I experimented with BDSM stuff with Steven pretty early on in our relationship. So early I can barely remember :) I know that by the time I was seeing the ex-wife, I was out as a BDSM person, and we discussed her previous bad experiences with bondage before proceeding to very mild tying up scenarios.
3. What is your favorite of your regular activities?
Reading. Cooking is a close second. Long walks through gardeny spaces might be third. Reading in gardeny spaces is not a regular activity, but it can be awful nice.
4. Now that you're working in Palo Alto, would you like to have lunch sometime?
I'm not working in Palo Alto yet :) But when I am (mid-March), sure!
5. Tell me about the last time you really wanted someone to like you.
I really, really want to give this question a good, solid answer, because I think it's a great question. But it's hard. I don't really concern myself much with whether people *like* me or not, and I haven't for a very long time, maybe before adulthood even. I don't go out of my way to be likable. Nonetheless, people seem to like me anyway...
I think the closest answer would be when I left to visit my parents for Xmas break when I'd just started dating G., and I missed him terribly, and I really hoped the feeling was more or less mutual because otherwise I was heading for trouble.
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Date: 2007-03-06 08:25 pm (UTC)We should arrange to do this more often, now that the sun is coming back.