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[pantryslut]

For those of you who are fans of the last link, don't miss Bitchy Jones' most recent entry, either.

"Every time you pretend to be turned on, or just do his kink because it makes him happy, or do his kink because it makes you feel valued, or do his kink because he’s paying you to, you are helping to make female sexuality less important. Making another point on the graph where women are sexual enablers rather than equal participants. Where men have the kinks and women kink themselves to fit."

As an aside, is it wrong of me to confess that her tone here in particular reminds me a little bit of Twisty at I Blame the Patriarchy? How many heads did I just explode?

As another aside, do I need to say that I do not agree with every single point she makes, but I still think it's a worthwhile read? Or: argue with her, not me? Argue with her, not me.

Read the comments, too.

Comments

[kiya]

Since I'm not arguing with either of you, could I just say that the discussion amuses the hell out of me because one of my more recent I-don't-call-them-scenes with my dom included simultaneous tea and sex?

[pantryslut.livejournal.com]

No! Never! You can't say that!

Oh, too late, you just did :)

[kiya]

Shock, horror, and perversity!

[mckennl.livejournal.com]

I liked the first link very much and am liking the blog alot, despite not really sharing any of her kinks whatsoever. I am a big fan of the ruthlessly truthful school of porn and what she writes is hot, even to someone who has no interest in doing what she's doing.

I like her, ya know? May not agree w/ everything she says, but I like her so far.